Rev. Troy L. Denson, Aug. 26, 2021
I have painfully learned that without affirming words and approval actions, which exude the sentiment, "I am proud of you," despite one's gifts or talents, successes, and even potentials, there will be challenges presenting a positive self-esteem publicly, overcoming a negative self-image in relationships, and struggling to achieve that which was planned for one's life. According to Mark's Gospel, at the very beginning of Jesus's ministry, God heralded these affirming words, "You are my beloved Son in whom I am well pleased" (Mark 1:11, 9:7). Arguably, Jesus maintained a successful ministry despite the religious leaders' mockery, continued his mission regardless of the betrayal of a disciple, and in spite of a wrongful crucifixion he resurrected to life and empowered the disciples... all because of the Father's continual approval throughout The Lord's ministry (Mark 9:7). In short, God's word, "Son, I am proud of you," was a powerful force in this earthly-illegitimate child's life. Personally, due to my own grim experiences at the start of my life and childhood, I learned to continuously give affirming, approving, and building words to my sons and others that I deem are seeking their way, "I am proud of you." Purposing their successes, this affirmation proceeds all of my words of advice, and despite their missteps, I exude their approval within all of my actions, "I am proud of you." Truth is... anyone can praise folks after their achievements, because the world loves associating with winners. However, how many men and women struggle career-wise, personally, and in relationships, all because of an absence or deficiency of personal approval from a respected individual?: "I am proud of you." Thus, today I challenge those reading this short message to take the time, effort, and selfless love for affirming, approving, and building others who are struggling in achieving their goals in their lives, so that like Jesus, they will receive spiritual inspiration and emotional resurrection in becoming a blessing for themselves and the world.
Amen
